Hedgehog Feeding Station

The wildlife cam we've been using over the summer has revealed that a neighbourhood cat is enjoying Hedgie's food as a supplementary meal each night.  With this in mind (and also that hedgehogs need to gain weight at this time of year before hibernation), we decided the time had come to seek a solution.  We aim to engage J in "meaningful" activities and this was one he was happy to take a hand in helping with.... he thought about what we'd need and we assisted in delivering the outcome he envisaged....  Here is what we did -

Having bought a 32litre underbed storage box (ours was £4), we took a white board pen and marked a doorway for Hedgie.

Drilling small pilot holes at each corner, a sharp craft knife was
carefully used to cut the plastic - it was brittle so there were some sharp splits.  After removing the "door", the rough edges were then filed and covered with electrical tape.

The lid was secured at the door end by using a

drill to make a small slot, then threading a cable tie through (it is rather fiddly but J persisted).  Making sure the lid would still open, using the cable ties to form a hinge, the ties were tightened (don't overdo it - you need to get in to replenish supplies)

Placing the food bowls at the opposite end of the box to the doorway, we set the wildlife cam up and waited to see who visited.  Night number one was only tabby cat neighbour but he didn't access the box and we're hopeful Hedgie will soon be eating happily.

UPDATE 
Second night's activity on youtube - an early visit!

Ideas for organisation and planning

J has struggled with keeping track of 'things'... whether they are physical belongings or the passage of time and the need to move onto a new activity.  We are experts in charts, lists, timetables, visual cues, reminders, tick sheets to name a few.  Early on, I realised the laminator would be my friend.  J hates the feel of certain types of paper but if it's encased in a bonded plastic wallet - hey presto, he will touch it!  Not only that but if we make a sufficiently 'generic' template, we can laminate it and then use dry wipe pens to customise it as appropriate.

For things like hand washing, when J was younger, we took pictures of each of the steps involved so he got them in the right order without having to always ask (or, more often, forget what to do so didn't bother).

Blank month template - created in Excel

We use timetables - monthly overviews and then weekly detail is added on a Monday. Ours are laminated sheets and J uses whiteboard pens to fill them in.  Using them to put on the 'definites' like therapy appointments and activities as well as maybes like seeing friends or chores around the house/garden.  J likes to see his weekly timetable updated on a Monday and, if there's a hated dental appointment ahead, he DOES NOT want that mentioned again until we set off.

Tick lists are good for 'what do I need in my bag' and used to consist of things like water bottle, fiddle toy, items for activity, snacks, suncream, hat, glasses and so on.  But these days, after years of learning, J will talk these through 'out loud' to himself when getting ready for the day rather than use a physical list.  Actually, he talks through most tasks if he's undertaking them 'solo'.  He seems to need the repetition to consolidate the action.

A great part of J's organisation and planning 'training' has been cooking.  He follows a recipe and will take each piece step by step.  He likes the familiarity of gathering the ingredients, checking for the equipment and then following the method.  Recently we have started to type up and laminate favourite recipes.  With a clear layout and step by step instructions, these sheets are also used as tick sheets to keep track of where in the recipe has been reached.

We often use a cooking analogy when taking on other things like packing an overnight bag or sorting out what is needed for a hydrotherapy session - remembering 'ingredients' (things needed for the task/outing) and 'method' (what will be done, in which order to achieve the outcome).

Shoe sticker

As a younger child, colour coding things also worked well.  Obviously, he loved all things yellow (hence the name of the blog) and
so, where possible, we gathered items that were yellow and then when looking for 'our stuff' when leaving Nana's or coming home from sports club, he'd look for yellow items that may be ours.  We had a blue bag for school so things related to that were also blue. 

Home made shoe sticker

He had stickers, cut in half, in his shoes so that the picture was showing properly when the shoes were put together.  He then knew the shoes were the right way round and would go on the correct feet.

Counting down the time to a change of task or getting ready to go out is still something we do.  J has very little concept of the passage of time and hates to be 'surprised' by what he sees as a sudden change.  In school he had a sand timer (which he'd tip onto its side) and we have digital timers that we set for him to see and hear the time passing.  These days, for going out of the house, we do a fifteen minute warning, a five minute warning and a 'right, time to get going'... the dog has picked up on the word "right" and dashes about which is an additional cue to make J realise his time's up!

Of course, there are resources aplenty to buy online... usually at great cost because anything labelled SEN or disability aid appears to have a hefty mark up added.  So, I have spent hours trawling sites, reading books, chatting to therapists and seeking our own 'version' of things that work for us.

Key Marking

J has a problem with locating things.  As mentioned in this blog, he likes the colour yellow. A lot.  Wandering around Homebase the other day, a small pot of Rustoleum Painter's Touch gloss finish in Bright Yellow was spotted... and, looking at the materials it can be used on, metal is covered.  So, a 20ml pot was bought (for £1.99).  We would paint the keys we need to find quickly - key covers have been tried in the past but they never last long.

Today, we assembled our equipment - old newspaper, small paintbrushes, keys and paint.

Covering the table with newspaper, the paint shaken and the correct key identified.

The key was painted yellow (we were lazy and didn't take it off the key ring)...








...and left to dry in the sunshine.

Once fully dry, it took about an hour, we had two sets of keys with a lovely bright yellow key for us to spot - effectively, a visual "USE ME" for all of us to see.

As shown in our pictures, we also use yellow wristbands on key rings as these allow the keys to be seen and held easily.  J's getting used to using keys when we go on dog walks - locking the door and keeping the keys safe - and having a wristband means he worries less about losing them.  Attaching them to his wrist gives him the security to know he has the keys with him and also has them readily available when arriving back at the door.